Sexting gets a bad rep. But we shouldn’t confuse the sins of an unsolicited dick pic with the gift of an enthusiastically consensual dick pic.
Getting horny with your partner over text isn’t just great foreplay. For many it can also act as an ideal space for establishing enthusiastic consent, exploring each other’s sexual fantasies, kinks, boundaries, and limitations.
In the age of #MeToo, we’re finally talking about how to change our sexual culture to ensure everyone’s having a great time during a sexual encounter. But often, dissenters frame consent like it’s a contract you have to sign before touching each other. (Those people clearly haven’t seen Fifty Shades of Grey, where the BDSM contract is hotter than the actual sex scenes.) Read more…
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